"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Length Of rapport

ssj245

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I have a question about strategy.

When you try to pick up a women from anyplace you need to have a situation where you will see that women in the same place for a few times or she will be there for a few hours where you can make ample rapport.

I know that the great experts can create good rapport in fifteen minutes but for the rest of us, I need more time, to make the chick feel comfortable with me.

Like a bus stop or a bookstore or on a line at a store are not good places for me to meet women because what the hell are you going to say to them, that wont be an obvious pickup attempt which in that case they shut you down.

Clubs are all physical

where could I go where you where kind of forced to interact and build rapport over time?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tim Hortons :D
Stores...Malls...Observing over a week routines of people, and purposely advancing. Scout it all out :)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Just because you have a lot of time on your hands, it doesn't mean that she does to. Think about yourself as trying to make a sale. Would you buy something from a person who takes forever and a day to convince you to buy? If you do buy it, do you really want it or do you just feel sorry for the guy?

Quit enforcing your shortcoming of building rapport. Learn how to do it quickly. It'll work in any situation and d@mn near any circumstance.
 
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