“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ssj245

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I have a question about strategy.

When you try to pick up a women from anyplace you need to have a situation where you will see that women in the same place for a few times or she will be there for a few hours where you can make ample rapport.

I know that the great experts can create good rapport in fifteen minutes but for the rest of us, I need more time, to make the chick feel comfortable with me.

Like a bus stop or a bookstore or on a line at a store are not good places for me to meet women because what the hell are you going to say to them, that wont be an obvious pickup attempt which in that case they shut you down.

Clubs are all physical

where could I go where you where kind of forced to interact and build rapport over time?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tim Hortons :D
Stores...Malls...Observing over a week routines of people, and purposely advancing. Scout it all out :)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Just because you have a lot of time on your hands, it doesn't mean that she does to. Think about yourself as trying to make a sale. Would you buy something from a person who takes forever and a day to convince you to buy? If you do buy it, do you really want it or do you just feel sorry for the guy?

Quit enforcing your shortcoming of building rapport. Learn how to do it quickly. It'll work in any situation and d@mn near any circumstance.
 
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