"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lend $5000 to gf

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kev07

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$5000 bucks is nothing, I wouldn't pick a $5000 bill lying on the ground if I saw it.

So yes, I would give her $5000 bucks.

:crazy:

Oh and to all the people who said no, I'm assuming you're not going to get married because you're technically giving half of what you're worth to her, which may or may not add up to 5 grands.
 

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I guess we'll see you on Judge Judy with her claiming it was a "gift"
thats why i suggested the sites that can set it up whereas if she does not pay it back, he has a leg to stand on in court.
 
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