funketekun
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If you have a gf will you lend her 5000 dollars?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lend $5000 to gf
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No.funketekun said:
$5,000 is a LOT of money. If she needs the money that bad, she should talk to a bank about getting a loan. If her credit isn't good enough to get a loan, well, there's probably a reason for that.
penkitten
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http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=15876230
tell her to go there...
or go to www.virginmoney.com
tell her to go there...
or go to www.virginmoney.com
funketekun
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Then that means u dont love your gf.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
kickureface
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LEND HER THE MONEY ITS THE 21ST CENTURY WHAT ARE YOU THINKING!!!!!
girls should get all the money. its the hidden rule of modern day america.
if shes goin to use the money to buy clothes, even better for you!!
girls should get all the money. its the hidden rule of modern day america.
if shes goin to use the money to buy clothes, even better for you!!
funketekun
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I like some answers hahahahah
chaddycakes21
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Could i ask what the money is going to be used for?
From my experience in this life, about 50-75% of the people i have lent money to either...
A) Took forever to pay me back
B) Never paid me back
Do NOT! i repeat Do NOT! lend this girl money.
Like others have said if she really needs the money that bad go to the bank, financial aid, credit union, etc.
From my experience in this life, about 50-75% of the people i have lent money to either...
A) Took forever to pay me back
B) Never paid me back
Do NOT! i repeat Do NOT! lend this girl money.
Like others have said if she really needs the money that bad go to the bank, financial aid, credit union, etc.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The Sperminator
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Depends what it is. I mean if it was for like chemo therapy or some kind of expensive medicine that she has to have or she will die or something then yeah but not if it's something stupid. Maybe for breast implants...
DJ1234
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If I was an AFC I would. But I would NEVER lend $5000 to a gf even if I had that kind of money to spare, sorry...what would she need that kind of money for that isn't life threatening or something along the lines of that?...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
steveoo5
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never!
The question is way too simple. Ask her why she needs such a large amount of money and use your own brain to think about whether she really needs it or not. If it's to purchase new pairs of clothing because she feels like it, I obviously would not give her the money. If it's for medication she needs for a very close family member, it's a different story.
Than again, you also need to look at yourself financially. Can you give her $5000 and still be financially okay? Do you even have $5000 to lend her?
Go through the decision making process to come to your conclusion and see how much you really do trust this girl.
Than again, you also need to look at yourself financially. Can you give her $5000 and still be financially okay? Do you even have $5000 to lend her?
Go through the decision making process to come to your conclusion and see how much you really do trust this girl.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Don't lend anyone any amount of money unless you can afford to give it to them.
skirtChaser
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If she has collateral, write up a contract, charge her 16% interest, make late payment charges, have it notarized, if she stop paying go to court and have her wages garnished, I've done it several times, mostly with my rentals, if she has her car payed for you can even put your name on her car title and if she stops paying you can take her car. Proceed with caution, do a credit report on her, be ready to collect if she defaults. Make sure you put in the late payment fee and court cost to garnish her wages. Limits to how much interest you can charge but no limits to how much of a "late payment fee".
If she wants to start trading sex for payments I think a good rate for that would be around 30 bucks a blow. On a 5K loan plus interest and fees, that's a lot of kawk sucking.
If she wants to start trading sex for payments I think a good rate for that would be around 30 bucks a blow. On a 5K loan plus interest and fees, that's a lot of kawk sucking.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.