funketekun
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If you have a gf will you lend her 5000 dollars?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
lend $5000 to gf
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No.funketekun said:
$5,000 is a LOT of money. If she needs the money that bad, she should talk to a bank about getting a loan. If her credit isn't good enough to get a loan, well, there's probably a reason for that.
penkitten
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http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=15876230
tell her to go there...
or go to www.virginmoney.com
tell her to go there...
or go to www.virginmoney.com
funketekun
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Then that means u dont love your gf.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
kickureface
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LEND HER THE MONEY ITS THE 21ST CENTURY WHAT ARE YOU THINKING!!!!!
girls should get all the money. its the hidden rule of modern day america.
if shes goin to use the money to buy clothes, even better for you!!
girls should get all the money. its the hidden rule of modern day america.
if shes goin to use the money to buy clothes, even better for you!!
funketekun
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I like some answers hahahahah
chaddycakes21
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Could i ask what the money is going to be used for?
From my experience in this life, about 50-75% of the people i have lent money to either...
A) Took forever to pay me back
B) Never paid me back
Do NOT! i repeat Do NOT! lend this girl money.
Like others have said if she really needs the money that bad go to the bank, financial aid, credit union, etc.
From my experience in this life, about 50-75% of the people i have lent money to either...
A) Took forever to pay me back
B) Never paid me back
Do NOT! i repeat Do NOT! lend this girl money.
Like others have said if she really needs the money that bad go to the bank, financial aid, credit union, etc.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The Sperminator
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Depends what it is. I mean if it was for like chemo therapy or some kind of expensive medicine that she has to have or she will die or something then yeah but not if it's something stupid. Maybe for breast implants...
DJ1234
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If I was an AFC I would. But I would NEVER lend $5000 to a gf even if I had that kind of money to spare, sorry...what would she need that kind of money for that isn't life threatening or something along the lines of that?...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
steveoo5
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never!
The question is way too simple. Ask her why she needs such a large amount of money and use your own brain to think about whether she really needs it or not. If it's to purchase new pairs of clothing because she feels like it, I obviously would not give her the money. If it's for medication she needs for a very close family member, it's a different story.
Than again, you also need to look at yourself financially. Can you give her $5000 and still be financially okay? Do you even have $5000 to lend her?
Go through the decision making process to come to your conclusion and see how much you really do trust this girl.
Than again, you also need to look at yourself financially. Can you give her $5000 and still be financially okay? Do you even have $5000 to lend her?
Go through the decision making process to come to your conclusion and see how much you really do trust this girl.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Don't lend anyone any amount of money unless you can afford to give it to them.
skirtChaser
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If she has collateral, write up a contract, charge her 16% interest, make late payment charges, have it notarized, if she stop paying go to court and have her wages garnished, I've done it several times, mostly with my rentals, if she has her car payed for you can even put your name on her car title and if she stops paying you can take her car. Proceed with caution, do a credit report on her, be ready to collect if she defaults. Make sure you put in the late payment fee and court cost to garnish her wages. Limits to how much interest you can charge but no limits to how much of a "late payment fee".
If she wants to start trading sex for payments I think a good rate for that would be around 30 bucks a blow. On a 5K loan plus interest and fees, that's a lot of kawk sucking.
If she wants to start trading sex for payments I think a good rate for that would be around 30 bucks a blow. On a 5K loan plus interest and fees, that's a lot of kawk sucking.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.