"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This has nothing to do with H&F, (shoot me down if needs be!) but I've noticed that a few of the UK based H&F regulars seem to live in or be from Leeds. Shaun, MM and myself at least (I was a long time lurker before I decided to post).

I just find it interesting that so many of a seemingly small group (WBA and Quagmire are the only others that come to mind, from the UK) live in, or come from Leeds. What makes this little northern city so popular for fitness buffs and potential DJs?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hmm, well, I'm at uni in Leeds but I lived nearby in Middlesbrough before uni :) I guess it's because Leeds is AWESOME!! and it's so banging with hot girls and night life. Why wouldn't you wanna walk about with good pick up skills and big arms ;)

Hey SAFC, do you go out in Leeds much, me and a few lads from themajesticself.com hit the popular night clubs (Oceana, Gatecrasher, Puro et al) sarging and I wanna meet more Leeds/Yorkshire lads from themajesticself.com etc as well. Fancy coming out with us? Join the board mate.

Hey Shezz, you planning on coming to Leeds anytime soon?

shaun
 

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I'm originally from Co. Durham. My name shows that I'm a football (soccer for the Americans) fan. Smog monster eh? Must be hard picking up women when you have extra body parts :p.

Are you at the uni or the met? I'll join the other board to see what it's like, and I might have a look out with you at some point. I go clubbing in Leeds now and then, although I prefer bar crawls. I've found that it's easier to talk to people in bars, and for me, a girl needs to keep my interest. I need to know a little about her before I put my tongue down her throat! It's no good just being hot. When I've got with girls in clubs and arranged to meet again, I'm not being funny when I say that they've all bored me to tears.

If you have some free time, have a look at the "videos that could change your life" post in DJ Discussion. The philosophies talked about are quite similar to my own, but I always thought they were wrong. Johnny Soporno (he has a **** name, but try to get past that!) rationalises things very well, and I don't feel so wrong about thinking the way I do, now.

I'm generally not the best in clubs, as I'm one for dazzling people with my sparkling wit and personality, and I can't do that in clubs... bit too loud! Still, I'm always up for meeting new people!
 

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Yeah, I reckon it's because Leeds has nothing to do, nor any nice women (they're all in Notts :D ), so you have to turn to gyms.

That said, I love my gym, and my women, i'm just happier in the worlds best city ;)
 

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I live in Leeds, go to uni in London though. I'll be Mr Olympia by the time I'm 30.

MM
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tom, stfu man, Leeds pwnzz Nottingham in terms of things to do and b1tches!$@"&$£ And besides you're not even in Nottingham, FVCKING MANSFIELD :D

catch ya on msn for a big argument ;)
 

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C'mon now Shaun.....

1) You're not FROM Leeds, you go to uni there.
2) You've never BEEN to Notts.
3) Most of the hot girls in Leeds, are what we sent you.
4) I have a 150kg sqaut.


Just kidding man, it's been a while. Still pimping all the Leeds women? There's a chance I might be coming up there for a year next year, then I'll show you how it's done ;)
 

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Wow, that's pretty cool that you guys actually meet up.
 

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WesCottII said:
C'mon now Shaun.....

1) You're not FROM Leeds, you go to uni there.
2) You've never BEEN to Notts.
3) Most of the hot girls in Leeds, are what we sent you.
4) I have a 150kg sqaut.


Just kidding man, it's been a while. Still pimping all the Leeds women? There's a chance I might be coming up there for a year next year, then I'll show you how it's done ;)
;) I am indeed, I wanna see you down here, me and Tom tearing up Leeds ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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