"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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okay, lets say uve been dating this girl for a few months, but, for sum reason, u want to leave her... so wut r u gona do? how r u gona act? wut r u gona say?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You dump her?

It's not hard, even some crap made up about how you don't feel her and still want to be chill, that works.
 
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Lol, who would date someone who types like you anyways?
You're like 12 years old lmao.
 
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CrazyBeautiful said:
Lol, who would date someone who types like you anyways?
You're like 12 years old lmao.
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o yes my TYPING is weird....

and u? how r u doing? pretty good?

check this out: u didnt answer my question... no not this one up here... but the one bout dumbing a girl kindly without hurting her.
 
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Georgey said:
o yes my TYPING is weird....

and u? how r u doing? pretty good?

check this out: u didnt answer my question... no not this one up here... but the one bout dumbing a girl kindly without hurting her.
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best way is to tell her straight up but in a respectful mannor.. get together,

tell her that you would rather be friends because you arent feeling for a relationship and that you refuse to drag her into something fake and end up hurting her, but still talk to her after that. the next day talk to her on msn or anything

dont become 100 percent aloof right away.. slowly distance urself within a weeks span
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You tell her that you're interest has dropped and you're ready to move on. It's a no-brainer.
 
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