"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Georgey

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okay, lets say uve been dating this girl for a few months, but, for sum reason, u want to leave her... so wut r u gona do? how r u gona act? wut r u gona say?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You dump her?

It's not hard, even some crap made up about how you don't feel her and still want to be chill, that works.
 

CrazyBeautiful

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Lol, who would date someone who types like you anyways?
You're like 12 years old lmao.
 

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CrazyBeautiful said:
Lol, who would date someone who types like you anyways?
You're like 12 years old lmao.
o yes my TYPING is weird....

and u? how r u doing? pretty good?

check this out: u didnt answer my question... no not this one up here... but the one bout dumbing a girl kindly without hurting her.
 

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Georgey said:
o yes my TYPING is weird....

and u? how r u doing? pretty good?

check this out: u didnt answer my question... no not this one up here... but the one bout dumbing a girl kindly without hurting her.
best way is to tell her straight up but in a respectful mannor.. get together,

tell her that you would rather be friends because you arent feeling for a relationship and that you refuse to drag her into something fake and end up hurting her, but still talk to her after that. the next day talk to her on msn or anything

dont become 100 percent aloof right away.. slowly distance urself within a weeks span
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WORKEROUTER

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You tell her that you're interest has dropped and you're ready to move on. It's a no-brainer.
 
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