leaving 15-20 min after sex

[blueline]

So, I have a ****buddy setup going on now. I have never done this before. I have big problems with giving away affection and then developing feelings for a girl.

I can **** without emotional attachment, but it's the cuddling that hurts me. So, what do I do? Keep the cuddling to a minimum of 10-15 minutes and then just walk away?

 

[PectoralisMajor]

Do whatever you like.

if she's a f&ck buddy, she will understand you have to go and f*ck someone else right?

 

[Nutz]

So, I have a ****buddy setup going on now. I have never done this before. I have big problems with giving away affection and then developing feelings for a girl.

I can **** without emotional attachment, but it's the cuddling that hurts me. So, what do I do? Keep the cuddling to a minimum of 10-15 minutes and then just walk away?

Cuddling is an Oxycontin thing that develops attachment. Don't do it if you only want to keep it an informal FB/FWB relationship. I'm trying to find the Roissy article that talks about it atm.


EDIT
Not the article I'm looking for, but it kinda touches on the underlying point:

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/03/09/a-fail-safe-way-to-get-hand/

 

[IamJosan]

You don't have to cuddle. Just do what I do. Look at the time, then say "Wow it's late I gotta go." Then you leave and everything is cool.

 

[Packers2010]

i never used to leave that early next morning. mostly.

but then again i would get up to take a piss and she would ask where i was going. lol

 

[sd.boi69]

do what you feel is right..

 

[bigneil]

When I was a teenager I loved this girl for years and only got her once and she made me leave after. Then years later I slept with her again and I left 15 minutes later. She never got over it. That was 9 years ago and she still to this day is in love with me.

"Under my thumb, the girl who once pushed me around".