"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Leave your door open where you work, where you live

Nicholas Hill

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Do you live in a room, or do you work in an office?

I'm amazed but not really shocked (to be honest) about the effect of having your door hinged open while you're inside. In my student house, my housemates often come into my room for a chat. One of my Computer Science lecturers who is also my friend has his office right next to the student labs. His door is also hinged open, and so I find it easy to enter his room to talk, as do other students (most of whom are asking him to come into the labs to help them with their coursework!)

If your doors are closed, people will not find it easy to come to you. You are literally closing it in their faces.

Nick
 

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bfl

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yeh thats a good tip right there
 

Skel

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dont leave your door open if you live where i live :)

You will come home to an empty house
 

MVPlaya

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I completely agree with you there, especially if you live in dorms. But in some neighborhoods leaving your door hinged open is a really stupid idea.
 

Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by MVPlaya
I completely agree with you there, especially if you live in dorms. But in some neighborhoods leaving your door hinged open is a really stupid idea.
I dont think he means residential. He means small appartments, dorms, offices, cubicals...etc..basically wherever people will be walking past, can feel invited in and have a chat.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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