"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Leave your door open where you work, where you live

Nicholas Hill

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Do you live in a room, or do you work in an office?

I'm amazed but not really shocked (to be honest) about the effect of having your door hinged open while you're inside. In my student house, my housemates often come into my room for a chat. One of my Computer Science lecturers who is also my friend has his office right next to the student labs. His door is also hinged open, and so I find it easy to enter his room to talk, as do other students (most of whom are asking him to come into the labs to help them with their coursework!)

If your doors are closed, people will not find it easy to come to you. You are literally closing it in their faces.

Nick
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bfl

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yeh thats a good tip right there
 

Skel

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dont leave your door open if you live where i live :)

You will come home to an empty house
 

MVPlaya

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I completely agree with you there, especially if you live in dorms. But in some neighborhoods leaving your door hinged open is a really stupid idea.
 

Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by MVPlaya
I completely agree with you there, especially if you live in dorms. But in some neighborhoods leaving your door hinged open is a really stupid idea.
I dont think he means residential. He means small appartments, dorms, offices, cubicals...etc..basically wherever people will be walking past, can feel invited in and have a chat.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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