juleswinns
Don Juan
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I'm going to call back 2 women I number closed on Saturday night. If I get a machine should I leave a message? How many times should I call before leaving her alone?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Leave A Messege On Phone
- Thread starter juleswinns
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Don't block caller ID unless you're calling from a phone you don't want her to call you back on.
If she doesn't answer, just keep it short and basic. ("Hi, it's Jules from Saturday night, call me back at ######## when you get a chance). If you have an idea for a get-together, or when she should or shouldn't call back, you can add that. Anything that reeks of trying to impress someone is bad.
If she doesn't answer, just keep it short and basic. ("Hi, it's Jules from Saturday night, call me back at ######## when you get a chance). If you have an idea for a get-together, or when she should or shouldn't call back, you can add that. Anything that reeks of trying to impress someone is bad.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Yeah, just leave a short message. If her interest level is high, she will definitely call you back.
Leave a message with a hook about something you talked about on Friday to leave in her in suspense and wanting to know the answer.
On how often to call. It's up to you. Some call every day for month if you can believe it. If it's a HB8 or 9 she probably has lots of plates, perhaps an FB or an ex and is probably busy so you're going to have put in an effort to pull her aside from her distractions. It's up to you.
On how often to call. It's up to you. Some call every day for month if you can believe it. If it's a HB8 or 9 she probably has lots of plates, perhaps an FB or an ex and is probably busy so you're going to have put in an effort to pull her aside from her distractions. It's up to you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
I like to limit my calls to once a day. If I can't get her, I'll just keep trying everyday until I get sick of trying.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
if you were calling your guy best friend would you leave a message?