juleswinns
Don Juan
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I'm going to call back 2 women I number closed on Saturday night. If I get a machine should I leave a message? How many times should I call before leaving her alone?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Leave A Messege On Phone
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Don't block caller ID unless you're calling from a phone you don't want her to call you back on.
If she doesn't answer, just keep it short and basic. ("Hi, it's Jules from Saturday night, call me back at ######## when you get a chance). If you have an idea for a get-together, or when she should or shouldn't call back, you can add that. Anything that reeks of trying to impress someone is bad.
If she doesn't answer, just keep it short and basic. ("Hi, it's Jules from Saturday night, call me back at ######## when you get a chance). If you have an idea for a get-together, or when she should or shouldn't call back, you can add that. Anything that reeks of trying to impress someone is bad.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Yeah, just leave a short message. If her interest level is high, she will definitely call you back.
Leave a message with a hook about something you talked about on Friday to leave in her in suspense and wanting to know the answer.
On how often to call. It's up to you. Some call every day for month if you can believe it. If it's a HB8 or 9 she probably has lots of plates, perhaps an FB or an ex and is probably busy so you're going to have put in an effort to pull her aside from her distractions. It's up to you.
On how often to call. It's up to you. Some call every day for month if you can believe it. If it's a HB8 or 9 she probably has lots of plates, perhaps an FB or an ex and is probably busy so you're going to have put in an effort to pull her aside from her distractions. It's up to you.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
I like to limit my calls to once a day. If I can't get her, I'll just keep trying everyday until I get sick of trying.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
if you were calling your guy best friend would you leave a message?