"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Leave A Messege On Phone

juleswinns

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I'm going to call back 2 women I number closed on Saturday night. If I get a machine should I leave a message? How many times should I call before leaving her alone?

:rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bonez

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Jules, what a question. Its like you know whats going to happen;)

Anyways, ignore the kids that are going to give you a list of rules.

All you need to know is that its HOW you leave a message that matters.
 

Bonhomme

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Don't block caller ID unless you're calling from a phone you don't want her to call you back on.

If she doesn't answer, just keep it short and basic. ("Hi, it's Jules from Saturday night, call me back at ######## when you get a chance). If you have an idea for a get-together, or when she should or shouldn't call back, you can add that. Anything that reeks of trying to impress someone is bad.
 

Max Power

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Leave a message with a hook about something you talked about on Friday to leave in her in suspense and wanting to know the answer.

On how often to call. It's up to you. Some call every day for month if you can believe it. If it's a HB8 or 9 she probably has lots of plates, perhaps an FB or an ex and is probably busy so you're going to have put in an effort to pull her aside from her distractions. It's up to you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Craig Reeves

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I like to limit my calls to once a day. If I can't get her, I'll just keep trying everyday until I get sick of trying.
 

backbreaker

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if you were calling your guy best friend would you leave a message?
 
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