juleswinns
Don Juan
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I'm going to call back 2 women I number closed on Saturday night. If I get a machine should I leave a message? How many times should I call before leaving her alone?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Leave A Messege On Phone
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Don't block caller ID unless you're calling from a phone you don't want her to call you back on.
If she doesn't answer, just keep it short and basic. ("Hi, it's Jules from Saturday night, call me back at ######## when you get a chance). If you have an idea for a get-together, or when she should or shouldn't call back, you can add that. Anything that reeks of trying to impress someone is bad.
If she doesn't answer, just keep it short and basic. ("Hi, it's Jules from Saturday night, call me back at ######## when you get a chance). If you have an idea for a get-together, or when she should or shouldn't call back, you can add that. Anything that reeks of trying to impress someone is bad.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Yeah, just leave a short message. If her interest level is high, she will definitely call you back.
Leave a message with a hook about something you talked about on Friday to leave in her in suspense and wanting to know the answer.
On how often to call. It's up to you. Some call every day for month if you can believe it. If it's a HB8 or 9 she probably has lots of plates, perhaps an FB or an ex and is probably busy so you're going to have put in an effort to pull her aside from her distractions. It's up to you.
On how often to call. It's up to you. Some call every day for month if you can believe it. If it's a HB8 or 9 she probably has lots of plates, perhaps an FB or an ex and is probably busy so you're going to have put in an effort to pull her aside from her distractions. It's up to you.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
I like to limit my calls to once a day. If I can't get her, I'll just keep trying everyday until I get sick of trying.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
if you were calling your guy best friend would you leave a message?