"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Learning two (or more) foreign languages

davidsonj73

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Anyone reading this who knows three or more languages, how did you do it? I mean, if I want to study Spanish and Hebrew, will studying both of them on the same day be counterproductive, or should I study one for x number of days or weeks, and then the other for x number of days or weeks? What I'm asking is how did you do it as far as your study schedule?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Scaramouche

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Hi Davidson,
This is a very interesting question....Sir Richard Burton,one of the most interesting coves,that God ever shovelled smarts into,had 26 languages and 14 dialects....He claimed that he had developed a system that enabled him to learn a language in six months,but then Burton could recite the entire Qur'an by heart...Some can do it even more quickly.....The English Savant Daniel Tammel taught himself Icelandic in seven Days....Ivan Illich claimed to be able to communicate effectively in Greek after an afternoon spent wandering around with the Greek Gardener at the New York Guest House he was staying at,before travelling to Greece....So while agreeing,that it is very much dependent on the individual,there might be systems out there to help you.
 

davidsonj73

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Hi Davidson,
This is a very interesting question....Sir Richard Burton,one of the most interesting coves,that God ever shovelled smarts into,had 26 languages and 14 dialects....He claimed that he had developed a system that enabled him to learn a language in six months,but then Burton could recite the entire Qur'an by heart...Some can do it even more quickly.....The English Savant Daniel Tammel taught himself Icelandic in seven Days....Ivan Illich claimed to be able to communicate effectively in Greek after an afternoon spent wandering around with the Greek Gardener at the New York Guest House he was staying at,before travelling to Greece....So while agreeing,that it is very much dependent on the individual,there might be systems out there to help you.
Thank you!
 
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