"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Learning two (or more) foreign languages

davidsonj73

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Anyone reading this who knows three or more languages, how did you do it? I mean, if I want to study Spanish and Hebrew, will studying both of them on the same day be counterproductive, or should I study one for x number of days or weeks, and then the other for x number of days or weeks? What I'm asking is how did you do it as far as your study schedule?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi Davidson,
This is a very interesting question....Sir Richard Burton,one of the most interesting coves,that God ever shovelled smarts into,had 26 languages and 14 dialects....He claimed that he had developed a system that enabled him to learn a language in six months,but then Burton could recite the entire Qur'an by heart...Some can do it even more quickly.....The English Savant Daniel Tammel taught himself Icelandic in seven Days....Ivan Illich claimed to be able to communicate effectively in Greek after an afternoon spent wandering around with the Greek Gardener at the New York Guest House he was staying at,before travelling to Greece....So while agreeing,that it is very much dependent on the individual,there might be systems out there to help you.
 

davidsonj73

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Hi Davidson,
This is a very interesting question....Sir Richard Burton,one of the most interesting coves,that God ever shovelled smarts into,had 26 languages and 14 dialects....He claimed that he had developed a system that enabled him to learn a language in six months,but then Burton could recite the entire Qur'an by heart...Some can do it even more quickly.....The English Savant Daniel Tammel taught himself Icelandic in seven Days....Ivan Illich claimed to be able to communicate effectively in Greek after an afternoon spent wandering around with the Greek Gardener at the New York Guest House he was staying at,before travelling to Greece....So while agreeing,that it is very much dependent on the individual,there might be systems out there to help you.
Thank you!
 
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