"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Learning two (or more) foreign languages

davidsonj73

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Anyone reading this who knows three or more languages, how did you do it? I mean, if I want to study Spanish and Hebrew, will studying both of them on the same day be counterproductive, or should I study one for x number of days or weeks, and then the other for x number of days or weeks? What I'm asking is how did you do it as far as your study schedule?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hi Davidson,
This is a very interesting question....Sir Richard Burton,one of the most interesting coves,that God ever shovelled smarts into,had 26 languages and 14 dialects....He claimed that he had developed a system that enabled him to learn a language in six months,but then Burton could recite the entire Qur'an by heart...Some can do it even more quickly.....The English Savant Daniel Tammel taught himself Icelandic in seven Days....Ivan Illich claimed to be able to communicate effectively in Greek after an afternoon spent wandering around with the Greek Gardener at the New York Guest House he was staying at,before travelling to Greece....So while agreeing,that it is very much dependent on the individual,there might be systems out there to help you.
 

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Hi Davidson,
This is a very interesting question....Sir Richard Burton,one of the most interesting coves,that God ever shovelled smarts into,had 26 languages and 14 dialects....He claimed that he had developed a system that enabled him to learn a language in six months,but then Burton could recite the entire Qur'an by heart...Some can do it even more quickly.....The English Savant Daniel Tammel taught himself Icelandic in seven Days....Ivan Illich claimed to be able to communicate effectively in Greek after an afternoon spent wandering around with the Greek Gardener at the New York Guest House he was staying at,before travelling to Greece....So while agreeing,that it is very much dependent on the individual,there might be systems out there to help you.
Thank you!
 
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