"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Learning to balance out and take control ...

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Something I did today I would like you guys to comment on.

There is this girl at work that is really stubborn with a dominant personality. I've been trying to get her to crack and actually act like a woman for once. Today, I was in the cafeteria and she walks up and starts talking to some people next to me...

Her: [to other guy] Hey, what's that you are eating ....
Me: [to other guy] Hey, I think she wants some of your food ....
Her: I do not ....
Me: In that case why don't you flick some of that ice off of your heart and into his drink.
Her: What did you say?
Me: *More clear and pronounced slower* Why don't YOU flick some of that ice off of your heart and into his drink...
Her: Ohhh, that's cute ....
Me: Yeah right, you ran right into that ....
Her: I did not ....
Her: [to other guy] Don't believe anything they say about me..

Me and him both speak a language that she doesn't understand, so I said to him in the other language ...

Her: She's lying, she has no idea what other people say ....

She gave me this smile and just left ... What a twisted girl ....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
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How was this odd? I was basically calling her a cold-hearted b!tch and everyone thought it it was funny when they heard it.
 
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Originally posted by bonjove
How was this odd? I was basically calling her a cold-hearted b!tch and everyone thought it it was funny when they heard it.
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ah, man my best friend use to date a women like this. Every time I came over I would get in a big fight, because of her attitude. Just move on, it her and not you. Some people have issues, that part of life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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