"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Learning Disabilities

ItsOnNow

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A few years ago,I was officially diagnosed with having a learning dissability. I think this may explain some of the problems I have had over the years,especially socially. Im also sure I have add,and I have been taking ritalin,which has helped. I have noticed when I am at work, I am more drivne energetic person.

Does anyone else have a similar problem,and if so,how have you overcame it and turned it around?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Skel

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I have ADD. I use to smoke a lot of pot, it made me feel better. I think it was a chemical imabalance or something. I dont know....I dont take meds now. I'm fine.

Socially I always had a lot of anxiety. I grew out of it with age.
 

wolf116

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I'm dyslexic, ADD and have social anxiety.
I joined this forum to improve my english skills.
Just find useful and interesting things to read on the net and in books.

It's like weight training with poor genitics, you just need to work twice as hard as most people.
 

kabatura

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I was diagnosed with ADD as a kid and took ritalin in middle school. It killed my appetite and made me tired all the time, so I stopped taking it. It seems to me that the idea of someone who doesn't have ADD is just a really boring person.

Of course ADD isn't a dibilitating thing. I could see dyslexia being a much bigger problem as would lots of other things. I consider ADD a personality enhancer.
 

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At my university, the head counselor told me that under the law, having a high IQ and bad grades is proof of a learning disability. That's all it takes. Therefore, I've been "disabled" my entire life and never noticed!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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