"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Learning Disabilities

ItsOnNow

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A few years ago,I was officially diagnosed with having a learning dissability. I think this may explain some of the problems I have had over the years,especially socially. Im also sure I have add,and I have been taking ritalin,which has helped. I have noticed when I am at work, I am more drivne energetic person.

Does anyone else have a similar problem,and if so,how have you overcame it and turned it around?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Skel

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I have ADD. I use to smoke a lot of pot, it made me feel better. I think it was a chemical imabalance or something. I dont know....I dont take meds now. I'm fine.

Socially I always had a lot of anxiety. I grew out of it with age.
 

wolf116

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I'm dyslexic, ADD and have social anxiety.
I joined this forum to improve my english skills.
Just find useful and interesting things to read on the net and in books.

It's like weight training with poor genitics, you just need to work twice as hard as most people.
 

kabatura

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I was diagnosed with ADD as a kid and took ritalin in middle school. It killed my appetite and made me tired all the time, so I stopped taking it. It seems to me that the idea of someone who doesn't have ADD is just a really boring person.

Of course ADD isn't a dibilitating thing. I could see dyslexia being a much bigger problem as would lots of other things. I consider ADD a personality enhancer.
 

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At my university, the head counselor told me that under the law, having a high IQ and bad grades is proof of a learning disability. That's all it takes. Therefore, I've been "disabled" my entire life and never noticed!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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