"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gravyboat

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I should've known better than to have posted a link to my MySpace profile in my DJ profile.

I've seen two profiles now that have copied either my "survey" answers or my "about me" section--almost verbatim.

Applying techniques learned here is a good thing. Trying to steal someone's personality is not.

I guess I should be flattered.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jizz

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I was one of them! I changed a bit of the about me section, to something that looks a lil like yours

yes you should be flattered, i like it the section, it made me laugh and i changed bits that suited me!
 

GuitarOnFire

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Great! By stealing other people's material, what will happen when a girl likes your profile and you're completely different than what she thought you were? :D

Something to keep in mind: BE UNIQUE, BE YOURSELF.
 
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