"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gravyboat

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I should've known better than to have posted a link to my MySpace profile in my DJ profile.

I've seen two profiles now that have copied either my "survey" answers or my "about me" section--almost verbatim.

Applying techniques learned here is a good thing. Trying to steal someone's personality is not.

I guess I should be flattered.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jizz

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I was one of them! I changed a bit of the about me section, to something that looks a lil like yours

yes you should be flattered, i like it the section, it made me laugh and i changed bits that suited me!
 

GuitarOnFire

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Great! By stealing other people's material, what will happen when a girl likes your profile and you're completely different than what she thought you were? :D

Something to keep in mind: BE UNIQUE, BE YOURSELF.
 
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