"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Learned MY Lesson...

Gravyboat

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I should've known better than to have posted a link to my MySpace profile in my DJ profile.

I've seen two profiles now that have copied either my "survey" answers or my "about me" section--almost verbatim.

Applying techniques learned here is a good thing. Trying to steal someone's personality is not.

I guess I should be flattered.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jizz

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I was one of them! I changed a bit of the about me section, to something that looks a lil like yours

yes you should be flattered, i like it the section, it made me laugh and i changed bits that suited me!
 

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Great! By stealing other people's material, what will happen when a girl likes your profile and you're completely different than what she thought you were? :D

Something to keep in mind: BE UNIQUE, BE YOURSELF.
 
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