"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Learn to make decisions

mistyc

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How how how.. How can you be a MAN and lead girls, if you can't make any single decisions and must come on a web board to ask questions about insignificant details.

Haven't you heard the expression "walking on eggshells" before? I'ts been used a lot in Pook's posts (or someone else??)

Well guess what.. If you can't even decide whether you should call at 7pm or 7h03 pm, you ARE walking on eggshells.

Learn to make mistakes, before you learn how to prevent them by doing something better. Otherwise you'll be walking on eggshells all your life. Make a decision and ACCEPT the consequences. Like a MAN.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Errors are great tools for learning but don't underestimate importance of theory. Perception of an error can be varied to the point of actually getting worse without guideance.
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Errors are great tools for learning but don't underestimate importance of theory. Perception of an error can be varied to the point of actually getting worse without guideance.
I'm not talking about theory, I'm talking about ppl walking on eggshells and not takign a single decision till they've posted here and gotten 10 different views and are back where they started. lol
 
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