"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Learn to make decisions

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How how how.. How can you be a MAN and lead girls, if you can't make any single decisions and must come on a web board to ask questions about insignificant details.

Haven't you heard the expression "walking on eggshells" before? I'ts been used a lot in Pook's posts (or someone else??)

Well guess what.. If you can't even decide whether you should call at 7pm or 7h03 pm, you ARE walking on eggshells.

Learn to make mistakes, before you learn how to prevent them by doing something better. Otherwise you'll be walking on eggshells all your life. Make a decision and ACCEPT the consequences. Like a MAN.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Errors are great tools for learning but don't underestimate importance of theory. Perception of an error can be varied to the point of actually getting worse without guideance.
 
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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Errors are great tools for learning but don't underestimate importance of theory. Perception of an error can be varied to the point of actually getting worse without guideance.
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I'm not talking about theory, I'm talking about ppl walking on eggshells and not takign a single decision till they've posted here and gotten 10 different views and are back where they started. lol
 
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