"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Learn to make decisions

mistyc

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How how how.. How can you be a MAN and lead girls, if you can't make any single decisions and must come on a web board to ask questions about insignificant details.

Haven't you heard the expression "walking on eggshells" before? I'ts been used a lot in Pook's posts (or someone else??)

Well guess what.. If you can't even decide whether you should call at 7pm or 7h03 pm, you ARE walking on eggshells.

Learn to make mistakes, before you learn how to prevent them by doing something better. Otherwise you'll be walking on eggshells all your life. Make a decision and ACCEPT the consequences. Like a MAN.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Errors are great tools for learning but don't underestimate importance of theory. Perception of an error can be varied to the point of actually getting worse without guideance.
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Errors are great tools for learning but don't underestimate importance of theory. Perception of an error can be varied to the point of actually getting worse without guideance.
I'm not talking about theory, I'm talking about ppl walking on eggshells and not takign a single decision till they've posted here and gotten 10 different views and are back where they started. lol
 
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