Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Youre from loveshack arent you??sosilky said:I'll start, no contact for a month or two while improving yourself and dating, and then drop a call to see how they have been or show value some how. and then pull away
sosilky said:I'll start, no contact for a month or two while improving yourself and dating, and then drop a call to see how they have been or show value some how. and then pull away
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
pee = toxic wasteKontrollerX said:Or a pool that was once filled with fresh water that is now filled with toxic waste Penny. :rock: :nono:
ok.sosilky said:I've lost girlfriends and got them back before. and they relationship improved the second time aroound because we learned from our previous mistakes. why should i believe that this couldn't happen again. I've slept with over 200 women. it's old. why should i not try to make it with one just because we hit a bump in the road?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
This doesn't add up. If you gotten with so many different women then why are you so concerned about a relationship with just one? Just find another.sosilky said:I've lost girlfriends and got them back before. I've slept with over 200 women. it's old. why should i not try to make it with one just because we hit a bump in the road?
I've gotten her back once already and done it before as well. and the relationship was better then ever.Faded Image said:You have to walk away.
As much as you miss you ex, the relationship will never regain the spark it once had if you do get back with her.
Take a break from the game and reevaluate your situation before you put a product out there that won't yield any success, only failure and frustration.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.