"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lbest techniuques to bate the ex to come back
- Thread starter sosilky
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ken785
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Youre from loveshack arent you??sosilky said:
penkitten
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i can not tell someone to bait an ex to come back to them.
why can't i? because people break up for certain reasons and most of those reasons are reasons enough never to date them again.
once the pool has been pee'd in , you get out and don't turn back.
once you get outta a pool that's been pee'd in, don't jump back in.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I've lost girlfriends and got them back before. and they relationship improved the second time aroound because we learned from our previous mistakes. why should i believe that this couldn't happen again. I've slept with over 200 women. it's old. why should i not try to make it with one just because we hit a bump in the road? I'm disapointed in this forum because there are so many briliant minds that know how to get laid but have no advice on LTRs and when things get rough they take the easy way out.
penkitten
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pee = toxic wasteKontrollerX said:
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penkitten
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ok.sosilky said:
so you made some of those relationships rekindle... but yet, none of them worked out, did they?
no! they couldn't have because you aren't with any of them now.
don't get me wrong, i am not suggesting you settle down with any of them... but i am saying that if you see a pattern that they don't end up working out, why continue to get back with ex's? isn't it a waste of time , when you can be getting to know someone new?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This doesn't add up. If you gotten with so many different women then why are you so concerned about a relationship with just one? Just find another.sosilky said:
And if you're that successful with women why are you asking for advice with basic question. It doesn't add up. I think you're probably tolling.
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As much as you miss you ex, the relationship will never regain the spark it once had if you do get back with her.
Take a break from the game and reevaluate your situation before you put a product out there that won't yield any success, only failure and frustration.
getting to know someone new is all fine and dandy and yes i will do that. But when a relationship is rekindled you are not the same person you were before. circumstances may have changed as well. I've rekindled relationships and the reason we are not together now is not because we didn't have a shot it is beccause sometimes life takes peple in diuffernt directions, school, job, someone being ready for things the other isn't ready for yet. I'm sick of banging around. and its not a simple question. simple is going out and grabbing chicks which guys on here come here to learn to do apparently. Thats SIMPLE!! find me someone ewho can talk to me about maintaining a relationship or get back the one you screwed up with and thats someone who has something to say.
If a woman leaves, let her. If she comes back, it was all on her own and you shouldn't have to anything for that to happen. Also, if she left because you were crazy, then she did the right thing. If she left because she was crazy, it was a blessing. Once the breakup happens, it should stay that way because it will never be like it once was.
There are plenty of wonderful, beautiful women out there. There are women out there that will treat you right, and you have to wade through all the dumb, selfish ones until you find the right one.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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If you continue on this path.. and not take any advice offered, you have no one else to blame but YOU, when it crashes and burns.