Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Youre from loveshack arent you??sosilky said:I'll start, no contact for a month or two while improving yourself and dating, and then drop a call to see how they have been or show value some how. and then pull away
sosilky said:I'll start, no contact for a month or two while improving yourself and dating, and then drop a call to see how they have been or show value some how. and then pull away
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
pee = toxic wasteKontrollerX said:Or a pool that was once filled with fresh water that is now filled with toxic waste Penny. :rock: :nono:
ok.sosilky said:I've lost girlfriends and got them back before. and they relationship improved the second time aroound because we learned from our previous mistakes. why should i believe that this couldn't happen again. I've slept with over 200 women. it's old. why should i not try to make it with one just because we hit a bump in the road?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This doesn't add up. If you gotten with so many different women then why are you so concerned about a relationship with just one? Just find another.sosilky said:I've lost girlfriends and got them back before. I've slept with over 200 women. it's old. why should i not try to make it with one just because we hit a bump in the road?
I've gotten her back once already and done it before as well. and the relationship was better then ever.Faded Image said:You have to walk away.
As much as you miss you ex, the relationship will never regain the spark it once had if you do get back with her.
Take a break from the game and reevaluate your situation before you put a product out there that won't yield any success, only failure and frustration.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.