"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'll start, no contact for a month or two while improving yourself and dating, and then drop a call to see how they have been or show value some how. and then pull away
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sosilky said:
I'll start, no contact for a month or two while improving yourself and dating, and then drop a call to see how they have been or show value some how. and then pull away
Youre from loveshack arent you?? :down:
 

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sosilky said:
I'll start, no contact for a month or two while improving yourself and dating, and then drop a call to see how they have been or show value some how. and then pull away

Guys on here are going to think you have one-itis. That's a big no no around here lol.
 

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i gotta be honest , new dude...
i can not tell someone to bait an ex to come back to them.
why can't i? because people break up for certain reasons and most of those reasons are reasons enough never to date them again.

once the pool has been pee'd in , you get out and don't turn back.
once you get outta a pool that's been pee'd in, don't jump back in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Or a pool that was once filled with fresh water that is now filled with toxic waste Penny. :rock: :nono:
 

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I've lost girlfriends and got them back before. and they relationship improved the second time aroound because we learned from our previous mistakes. why should i believe that this couldn't happen again. I've slept with over 200 women. it's old. why should i not try to make it with one just because we hit a bump in the road? I'm disapointed in this forum because there are so many briliant minds that know how to get laid but have no advice on LTRs and when things get rough they take the easy way out.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Or a pool that was once filled with fresh water that is now filled with toxic waste Penny. :rock: :nono:
pee = toxic waste :D
 

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sosilky said:
I've lost girlfriends and got them back before. and they relationship improved the second time aroound because we learned from our previous mistakes. why should i believe that this couldn't happen again. I've slept with over 200 women. it's old. why should i not try to make it with one just because we hit a bump in the road?
ok.
so you made some of those relationships rekindle... but yet, none of them worked out, did they?
no! they couldn't have because you aren't with any of them now.

don't get me wrong, i am not suggesting you settle down with any of them... but i am saying that if you see a pattern that they don't end up working out, why continue to get back with ex's? isn't it a waste of time , when you can be getting to know someone new?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sosilky said:
I've lost girlfriends and got them back before. I've slept with over 200 women. it's old. why should i not try to make it with one just because we hit a bump in the road?
This doesn't add up. If you gotten with so many different women then why are you so concerned about a relationship with just one? Just find another.
And if you're that successful with women why are you asking for advice with basic question. It doesn't add up. I think you're probably tolling.
 

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You have to walk away.

As much as you miss you ex, the relationship will never regain the spark it once had if you do get back with her.

Take a break from the game and reevaluate your situation before you put a product out there that won't yield any success, only failure and frustration.
 

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getting to know someone new is all fine and dandy and yes i will do that. But when a relationship is rekindled you are not the same person you were before. circumstances may have changed as well. I've rekindled relationships and the reason we are not together now is not because we didn't have a shot it is beccause sometimes life takes peple in diuffernt directions, school, job, someone being ready for things the other isn't ready for yet. I'm sick of banging around. and its not a simple question. simple is going out and grabbing chicks which guys on here come here to learn to do apparently. Thats SIMPLE!! find me someone ewho can talk to me about maintaining a relationship or get back the one you screwed up with and thats someone who has something to say.
 

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Faded Image said:
You have to walk away.

As much as you miss you ex, the relationship will never regain the spark it once had if you do get back with her.

Take a break from the game and reevaluate your situation before you put a product out there that won't yield any success, only failure and frustration.
I've gotten her back once already and done it before as well. and the relationship was better then ever.
 

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sosilky, this site is not for the faint of heart. It's a site that will make you emotionally tough and help you drop those women that don't really care for you and find women that are worth keeping.

If a woman leaves, let her. If she comes back, it was all on her own and you shouldn't have to anything for that to happen. Also, if she left because you were crazy, then she did the right thing. If she left because she was crazy, it was a blessing. Once the breakup happens, it should stay that way because it will never be like it once was.

There are plenty of wonderful, beautiful women out there. There are women out there that will treat you right, and you have to wade through all the dumb, selfish ones until you find the right one.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Find another girl.
If you continue on this path.. and not take any advice offered, you have no one else to blame but YOU, when it crashes and burns.
 
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