"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lazy MotherF#!ckers ...

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Not you guys but probably. I'm mainly talking about my family I work 9 hours a day and I come home and I have to clean up. I live with my 20 year old sister who stays posted on the couch. I also live with my 10 year old brother who won't even watch after his dog. My mom works 40 hours and is not as energetic as I am. I mean how hard is it to keep a bathroom clean.

This reminds me of the post laziness=masturbation only in this case laziness=nothingness you do nothing you become nothing in my opinion. I think it's about time I found my own place, any tips.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Two tips:

1) No DJ lives in his parents basement so you are right you should get your own place
2) If you think 9 hours a day is a lot stay out of the financial industry
 
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I have my own room, and I work 9 hours more or less. I'm just frustrated, my days are going by quick and I get no help at home. I'm going to get my own spot I just need to find a good way to do this.
 
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