"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lazy MotherF#!ckers ...

Chosen1

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Not you guys but probably. I'm mainly talking about my family I work 9 hours a day and I come home and I have to clean up. I live with my 20 year old sister who stays posted on the couch. I also live with my 10 year old brother who won't even watch after his dog. My mom works 40 hours and is not as energetic as I am. I mean how hard is it to keep a bathroom clean.

This reminds me of the post laziness=masturbation only in this case laziness=nothingness you do nothing you become nothing in my opinion. I think it's about time I found my own place, any tips.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Two tips:

1) No DJ lives in his parents basement so you are right you should get your own place
2) If you think 9 hours a day is a lot stay out of the financial industry
 

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I have my own room, and I work 9 hours more or less. I'm just frustrated, my days are going by quick and I get no help at home. I'm going to get my own spot I just need to find a good way to do this.
 
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