"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not you guys but probably. I'm mainly talking about my family I work 9 hours a day and I come home and I have to clean up. I live with my 20 year old sister who stays posted on the couch. I also live with my 10 year old brother who won't even watch after his dog. My mom works 40 hours and is not as energetic as I am. I mean how hard is it to keep a bathroom clean.

This reminds me of the post laziness=masturbation only in this case laziness=nothingness you do nothing you become nothing in my opinion. I think it's about time I found my own place, any tips.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Two tips:

1) No DJ lives in his parents basement so you are right you should get your own place
2) If you think 9 hours a day is a lot stay out of the financial industry
 

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I have my own room, and I work 9 hours more or less. I'm just frustrated, my days are going by quick and I get no help at home. I'm going to get my own spot I just need to find a good way to do this.
 
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