“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rainman4707

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Met a lass of tinder. It was just s pur of the moment thing. To me, judging by her pics and her text, she seemed common (bit of a slag) but she had a few cute pics and a canny set of tits, so i was in her area and hit her up. Picked her up, she left her 10 and 12 year old in the house by themselves. To be fair, she looked better in person. She had made an effort and looked sexy. It was one of those online meetups where they are better than expected. She was quiet and easy to lead, no attitude, she was calm and allowed me to be in control. It was a spur of the moment meet because i had been watching football closer to hers. I asked her if there were any bars nearby. We had a drink.


When i had been messaging her on tinder, i used an old mystery tip asking her 'one thing she would get wrong for doing, if i knew' she answered 'other people' so that opened the gates a bit. My answer was that i have big tongue and am good at using it.


I took hold of her hand as we walked to the bar, she chose somewhere, then i said no, and chose somewhere else (old david de angelo tip) when inside bar i pulled her right next to me and had my arm around her and after 5 mins told her to give me a kiss, which she obliged.


Had a drink and chat for 15 mins or so. I then asked her if she was wearing and knickers, she answered black thong. Her shirt was struggling to hold her big bosom too. This made me want more, but we could'nt go back to hers because her kids were there. I asked her if there was any quiet areas in this neighbourhood we could go, she suggested a place. So we went in the car, but she couldnt find it (it was dark. so we were looking for somewhere we could get intimate in the car. Glad i thought of taking her somewhere quiet in the car, i remember a girl on a previous thread that i should have done this with, this previous girl was being very naughty and a tease, saying i could sleep on her seatee with her, but her daughter was in. Then she said no etc wish i had thought of ****ing her in the car.


Last nights girl though. We found a quiet area outside a factory. Wasnt my best sexual performance by far, but i really enjoyed her. She had massive tits, and she just felt very feminine. Had a real fun time with her. Goes without saying its a bit awkward in the car..not much room and she cut her knee whilst grinding up and down on my co**.


Only posted this for guys with low experience. (Maybe they will pickup a few tips and learn. Yes the more experienced guy will probably find faults.
 

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Lay report.


Met a lass of tinder. It was just s pur of the moment thing. To me, judging by her pics and her text, she seemed common (bit of a slag) but she had a few cute pics and a canny set of tits, so i was in her area and hit her up. Picked her up, she left her 10 and 12 year old in the house by themselves. To be fair, she looked better in person. She had made an effort and looked sexy. It was one of those online meetups where they are better than expected. She was quiet and easy to lead, no attitude, she was calm and allowed me to be in control. It was a spur of the moment meet because i had been watching football closer to hers. I asked her if there were any bars nearby. We had a drink.


When i had been messaging her on tinder, i used an old mystery tip asking her 'one thing she would get wrong for doing, if i knew' she answered 'other people' so that opened the gates a bit. My answer was that i have big tongue and am good at using it.


I took hold of her hand as we walked to the bar, she chose somewhere, then i said no, and chose somewhere else (old david de angelo tip) when inside bar i pulled her right next to me and had my arm around her and after 5 mins told her to give me a kiss, which she obliged.


Had a drink and chat for 15 mins or so. I then asked her if she was wearing and knickers, she answered black thong. Her shirt was struggling to hold her big bosom too. This made me want more, but we could'nt go back to hers because her kids were there. I asked her if there was any quiet areas in this neighbourhood we could go, she suggested a place. So we went in the car, but she couldnt find it (it was dark. so we were looking for somewhere we could get intimate in the car. Glad i thought of taking her somewhere quiet in the car, i remember a girl on a previous thread that i should have done this with, this previous girl was being very naughty and a tease, saying i could sleep on her seatee with her, but her daughter was in. Then she said no etc wish i had thought of ****ing her in the car.


Last nights girl though. We found a quiet area outside a factory. Wasnt my best sexual performance by far, but i really enjoyed her. She had massive tits, and she just felt very feminine. Had a real fun time with her. Goes without saying its a bit awkward in the car..not much room and she cut her knee whilst grinding up and down on my co**.


Only posted this for guys with low experience. (Maybe they will pickup a few tips and learn. Yes the more experienced guy will probably find faults.
Nice play pulling off oldschool stuff like Mystery and De Angelo! I remember losing out on a fair handful of lays due to living with my parents or her being in the same situation or both. Heh. Jeep and Chevy Impala s3x for days! Hotels were another option as well. I'd say if it's a success why fret over what you could have done better? It worked!

The only thing I would have done different is nonverbal escalation to physical stuff. I to date have never verbalized wanting a kiss or s3x. Unless you count the handful of times I've done that when I was in a failing LTR and didn't know she'd been "checked out" and already had the exit planned. Even though I didn't know that, I wasn't going to tolerate no "fun" with anyone I dated. So I didn't put up with it. Didn't find out until later that this was one thing I did well.

Not saying there's anything WRONG with asking, but even if you don't verbalize it, you can tell if she's refusing it in nonverbal ways too. Probably just a preference thing. Sounds solid though!
 

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Nice play pulling off oldschool stuff like Mystery and De Angelo! I remember losing out on a fair handful of lays due to living with my parents or her being in the same situation or both. Heh. Jeep and Chevy Impala s3x for days! Hotels were another option as well. I'd say if it's a success why fret over what you could have done better? It worked!

The only thing I would have done different is nonverbal escalation to physical stuff. I to date have never verbalized wanting a kiss or s3x. Unless you count the handful of times I've done that when I was in a failing LTR and didn't know she'd been "checked out" and already had the exit planned. Even though I didn't know that, I wasn't going to tolerate no "fun" with anyone I dated. So I didn't put up with it. Didn't find out until later that this was one thing I did well.

Not saying there's anything WRONG with asking, but even if you don't verbalize it, you can tell if she's refusing it in nonverbal ways too. Probably just a preference thing. Sounds solid though!
Yeah, mysterys question gave her a chance to create the sexual tension. From that moment forward, i had a sense that she might be game for sex. That made me more confident at been forward i think.
 

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I haven't thought about David DeAngelo in a LONG time. His early stuff helped a very young version of me learn how to get over anxiety just speaking to girls/women.

Good job on the lay. You knew what you wanted and lead with purpose. That resonated with this woman (like it does 99% of them even if they won't admit it). Anything more than a short term thing would probably be difficult given the kid situation. But I know you didn't say you wanted anything more.
 

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I haven't thought about David DeAngelo in a LONG time. His early stuff helped a very young version of me learn how to get over anxiety just speaking to girls/women.

Good job on the lay. You knew what you wanted and lead with purpose. That resonated with this woman (like it does 99% of them even if they won't admit it). Anything more than a short term thing would probably be difficult given the kid situation. But I know you didn't say you wanted anything more.
Yeah, been a few weeks since i've had the smell of ***** on my fingers, so all is well. Happy days
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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A few things that stood out that less experienced guys can benefit from:

-Pick a girl that is ready and willing and things flow very well.
-Don't try too hard or over complicate something.
-Be confident. Lead with purpose.
 

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Yes the more experienced guy will probably find faults.
I mean, do you want feedback? There's not really much to nitpick here.

It was a spur of the moment meet because i had been watching football closer to hers. I asked her if there were any bars nearby. We had a drink.
This is probably the only "fault" I could find, because I'd have just searched bars in the area near her and picked one, rather than ask her and let her lead.

Otherwise, she was interested enough to get done up for a total stranger, leave her kids at home, kiss you in a public bar, and then f*** you in a car, so it's just recognizing that she was high-interest, and capitalizing on that.

Well done.

I'm not aware of your situation, so are you living at home with family as well, and that's why you couldn't take her to yours, since hers wasn't an option?
 

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You really pick the winners...leaving 10 and 12 year olds in the house by themselves to meet some random dude and fvck? In many places that is a CPS call waiting to happen.
Thank you. This isn’t seduction. This is everything that’s wrong with seduction dialogue. This is the swiping of pulling the ‘golden ticket’. This woman was DTF before she opened the app. He could have skipped the drinks and told her on the app what he wanted to do. We’ve all been there. Swipe enough and this woman pops up. I’d love to see the chat and whatever direct or indirect innuendo she used prior to their getting together. She was a wh0re and there is nothing to be learned from this.
 
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Thank you. This isn’t seduction. This is everything that’s wrong with seduction dialogue. This is the swiping of pulling the ‘golden ticket’. This woman was DTF before she opened the app. He could have skipped the drinks and told her on the app what he wanted to do. We’ve all been there. Swipe enough and this woman pops up. I’d love to see the chat and whatever direct or indirect innuendo she used prior to their getting together. She was a wh0re and there is nothing to be learned from this.
I would have been too disgusted by her behavior to even warrant doing anything with her and I don't give a fvck if she had the body of a goddess with the face of an angel.

I would have also most likely went the fvck off on her and told her to get her damn priorities straight and stop being a walking CPS Violation.
 

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You really pick the winners...leaving 10 and 12 year olds in the house by themselves to meet some random dude and fvck? In many places that is a CPS call waiting to happen.
Oh please. 10 and 12 are not one and two. When I was 10, I walked to school by myself, as did most other kids. Unless the kids are literally retarded, they shouldn't need round-the-clock supervision, especially if they are at home.
 

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This isn’t seduction
as Mark Manson says, game is played on the 'yes girls' lol. Whether it's cold approach or tinder or whatever else. Ain't nobody out there jedi mind tricking girls who aren't attracted into wanting them. Even with the 'coaches' who claim this mystical ability, their own infields prove otherwise and contradict them. We give the word 'seduction' too much credit lol
 

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Oh please. 10 and 12 are not one and two. When I was 10, I walked to school by myself, as did most other kids. Unless the kids are literally retarded, they shouldn't need round-the-clock supervision, especially if they are at home.
Tell that to the social worker who would be taking the kids away if something happened due to her making poor life choices.

Times are far more dangerous than when you or I were growing up with the incidence of online predators and everything else that didn't even exist when we were kids.
 

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Oh please. 10 and 12 are not one and two. When I was 10, I walked to school by myself, as did most other kids. Unless the kids are literally retarded, they shouldn't need round-the-clock supervision, especially if they are at home.
Fair point about the 10 and 12 year-olds... but guys the car? Really?

I made a post earlier but deleted it as I thought it sounded judgy. But from the sound of things, girl was thirsty for the d***, @Rainman4707 offered and she got her validation fix. In the car.

Not to discount @Rainman4707 appeal but where's the Game?
 
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Tell that to the social worker who would be taking the kids away if something happened due to her making poor life choices.

Times are far more dangerous than when you or I were growing up with the incidence of online predators and everything else that didn't even exist when we were kids.
How about there is simply an accident in the house, the other one (hopefully) calls emergency service and then where’s mom? instant wards of the state.
 

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Fair about the 10 and 12 year-olds... but guys the car? Really?

I made a post earlier but deleted it as I thought it sounded judgy. But from the sound of things, girl was thirsty for the d***, @Rainman4707 offered and she got her validation fix. In the car.

Not to discount @Rainman4707 appeal but where's the Game?
I’ve had sex in cars dozens of times. I don’t think that’s a good barometer.
 

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Tell that to the social worker who would be taking the kids away if something happened due to her making poor life choices.

Times are far more dangerous than when you or I were growing up with the incidence of online predators and everything else that didn't even exist when we were kids.
First of all, judging by his use of the word "lass", the OP is in the UK. That country has a lot of stupid laws but it is not illegal to leave a 10 year old unattended for several hours. Nor should it be. Sexual predators have been around a lot longer than the internet. If your 10 year old cannot be left alone for a couple of hours without inviting a pedophile over, you have miserably failed as a parent.
 

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I find it interesting how this thread is devolving into criticizing OP's taste in women because this stranger he'd never met made a decision without his input, of her own volition...

As far as game, I'm not sure what people are expecting. He recognized high interest, led, capitalized on it, facilitated an outcome, and did it without f***ing up at any point along the way.

If this is something to criticize, then what do we celebrate?
 

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Back when cars didn’t have seatbelts and women smoke and drank while pregnant?
Back when kids weren't taking puberty blockers and asking their dumb@ss parents to cut off their testicles. Back when you could send your kids to school knowing that they would be taught about classical literature and math, not bl0wjobs, anal sex and made up genders.
 
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