"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Latvian chicks
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TonyTheTigerOI
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jakethasnake
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Woah, you must be an expert.... a black cack expert.
duke007
Master Don Juan
Stupid to generalise though
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yotsuya-san
Senior Don Juan
No experience myself but after reading the online journal of that nutcase Winston Wu , At least I know more about what not to do in Russia and Latvia. Or anywhere else in general!Originally posted by ego
Anyone ever went to latvia or Russia? Anyone with experience from their girls?
Tell me about it - I’m going to Riga, the capital of Latvia, on vacation for 3 weeks…
sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
Alpine
Master Don Juan
sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
Alpine
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jakethasnake
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That BONEHEAD gives Asians AFCs, and AFCs in general a really, really horrible name. Each day I pray that he ends up in a dumpster in Moscow with his fingers missing and legs broken, and is quickly deported back to the US. I heard that a local news crew did a cover on this guy, and they painted him as an utter dork and clueless foreigner (which he is, to be honest). I fear that if any Asian man went there now, whether it's on holiday or for business (for example the US Department of Defense), he will get ridiculed when he was just minding his own business, or even attacked. This is the power of association.
Centaurion
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jakethasnake
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Just check out his site dude. He has some type of personality disorder where he tries to escape reality by painting himself as some kind of great artist and philosopher. His "bio" - the one where he talks about himself in the third person like you're reading an autobiography of a monarch/actor/politician/president? That't just the sound of him fellating himself. And once he pulls his c0ck out of his own mouth after busting a nut, he'll tell you (with his own c-um staining his breath) that he is indeed the real deal, and that anyone pointing out his delusionare just 'haters'.
In truth, he's just an ugly and traumatized dork who had to pay for puzzy in Russia - now he's convinced that he's some kind of Cassanova, and a revolutionary philosopher.
One thing though - he's still better than most of the keyboard jockey-types here. At least he took SOME kind of action.
Mr.Fortesque
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I am from Bratislava capital of Slovakia (Eastern Europe), neighbour of Czech and both Slovak and Czech nations have ugly girls, too
Some people say, that we have very hot babes, but I don't know :-/
I was in German and I liked german girls, too. You can't generalize, everyone has different taste for girls.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yotsuya-san
Senior Don Juan
You got it, jake. The only thing revolutionary about this clown is that he's the first pseudo-intellectual who actually got out of his armchair and really showed the world what a jackass he is, as opposed to just showing off in front of other geeks who I'm sure can't stand his ass either. In that, I think his story serves as a cautionary tale to others.
But seriously, he's not taken the action that he needs to take, like doing something about his self centeredness. Seems like most of his problems both social and psychological revolve around the fact that he's trying to overcompensate for being a misfit all his life. Many who experience that sort of ostracism develop a huge ego as adults, but they don't develop the charisma and humility that serves as a buffer. This is where Winston Wu went wrong. He's obviously smart and educated. He could have become somebody worthy of respect but instead he's doing nothing but shamelessly flaunt the emotional baggage he's been carrying all his life instead of keeping it in check and focusing on a bigger picture.
zentraveller
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Yet he still prefers Eastern Europe to the U.S. because the possibility of gold-digging pvssy remains available to him (under the illusion that he is "seducing" these women).
Such is the power of poon tang over certain men.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
She was very sexy in a non-slutty way. She even sometimes ***** a corset and no shirt but they way she dressed and acted made it appropraite. She was very smart and one of the few girls i could discuss physics, philsosopy or anything major....and she was a lot smarter then me.
Very talented girl and very sexy in a good way. Definetely not the type of girl you would **** and chuck. The only problem was she was perhaps 2 into her stuff and never really was into guys (even though she was, she was just very shy) until now.
Snatchmaster
Don Juan
http://www.wsgforum.com/
...for all your mongering needs. Hopefully you don't consider it a personal failure to p4p on occasion - especially when you're in a foreign country surrounded by hot squint that speaks another language.
Yes, I know some of the guys here have moral issues with paying broads to spread their legs. But, c'mon, it's a special occasion for the guy...