"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Latvian chicks
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TonyTheTigerOI
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jakethasnake
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Woah, you must be an expert.... a black cack expert.
duke007
Master Don Juan
Stupid to generalise though
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yotsuya-san
Senior Don Juan
No experience myself but after reading the online journal of that nutcase Winston Wu , At least I know more about what not to do in Russia and Latvia. Or anywhere else in general!Originally posted by ego
Anyone ever went to latvia or Russia? Anyone with experience from their girls?
Tell me about it - I’m going to Riga, the capital of Latvia, on vacation for 3 weeks…
sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
Alpine
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sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
Alpine
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
jakethasnake
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That BONEHEAD gives Asians AFCs, and AFCs in general a really, really horrible name. Each day I pray that he ends up in a dumpster in Moscow with his fingers missing and legs broken, and is quickly deported back to the US. I heard that a local news crew did a cover on this guy, and they painted him as an utter dork and clueless foreigner (which he is, to be honest). I fear that if any Asian man went there now, whether it's on holiday or for business (for example the US Department of Defense), he will get ridiculed when he was just minding his own business, or even attacked. This is the power of association.
Centaurion
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jakethasnake
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Just check out his site dude. He has some type of personality disorder where he tries to escape reality by painting himself as some kind of great artist and philosopher. His "bio" - the one where he talks about himself in the third person like you're reading an autobiography of a monarch/actor/politician/president? That't just the sound of him fellating himself. And once he pulls his c0ck out of his own mouth after busting a nut, he'll tell you (with his own c-um staining his breath) that he is indeed the real deal, and that anyone pointing out his delusionare just 'haters'.
In truth, he's just an ugly and traumatized dork who had to pay for puzzy in Russia - now he's convinced that he's some kind of Cassanova, and a revolutionary philosopher.
One thing though - he's still better than most of the keyboard jockey-types here. At least he took SOME kind of action.
Mr.Fortesque
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I am from Bratislava capital of Slovakia (Eastern Europe), neighbour of Czech and both Slovak and Czech nations have ugly girls, too
Some people say, that we have very hot babes, but I don't know :-/
I was in German and I liked german girls, too. You can't generalize, everyone has different taste for girls.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yotsuya-san
Senior Don Juan
You got it, jake. The only thing revolutionary about this clown is that he's the first pseudo-intellectual who actually got out of his armchair and really showed the world what a jackass he is, as opposed to just showing off in front of other geeks who I'm sure can't stand his ass either. In that, I think his story serves as a cautionary tale to others.
But seriously, he's not taken the action that he needs to take, like doing something about his self centeredness. Seems like most of his problems both social and psychological revolve around the fact that he's trying to overcompensate for being a misfit all his life. Many who experience that sort of ostracism develop a huge ego as adults, but they don't develop the charisma and humility that serves as a buffer. This is where Winston Wu went wrong. He's obviously smart and educated. He could have become somebody worthy of respect but instead he's doing nothing but shamelessly flaunt the emotional baggage he's been carrying all his life instead of keeping it in check and focusing on a bigger picture.
zentraveller
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Yet he still prefers Eastern Europe to the U.S. because the possibility of gold-digging pvssy remains available to him (under the illusion that he is "seducing" these women).
Such is the power of poon tang over certain men.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
She was very sexy in a non-slutty way. She even sometimes ***** a corset and no shirt but they way she dressed and acted made it appropraite. She was very smart and one of the few girls i could discuss physics, philsosopy or anything major....and she was a lot smarter then me.
Very talented girl and very sexy in a good way. Definetely not the type of girl you would **** and chuck. The only problem was she was perhaps 2 into her stuff and never really was into guys (even though she was, she was just very shy) until now.
Snatchmaster
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http://www.wsgforum.com/
...for all your mongering needs. Hopefully you don't consider it a personal failure to p4p on occasion - especially when you're in a foreign country surrounded by hot squint that speaks another language.
Yes, I know some of the guys here have moral issues with paying broads to spread their legs. But, c'mon, it's a special occasion for the guy...