"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Don Juan
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paris avenue ft robin one - i want u
filur - i want u
danzel - pump it up
infernal - paris to berlin
tiesto - adagio for strings
uniting nations - out of touch
springbreak - shutup (cascada remix)
cant think of anymore house/dance
rap/rnb/hiphop
r.kelly - kickin it with your girlfriend
r.kelly - girls go crazy
hawk ft lil jon, scott storch - hoes aint ****
ying yang twins - put that thang down
112 - let this go
50 cent - just a lil bit
50 cent - outta control
the game ft 50 cent - this is how we do
dmx - give em what they want
eminem - mockingbird
cant be bothered typing ne more
DogFashionDisco
Senior Don Juan
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Speed of Sound - Coldplay
All The Small Things - Blink 182
Holiday - Green Day
Sugar We're Goin' Down - Fall Out Boy
Somewhere Only We Know - Keane
ShizamDaMan
Master Don Juan
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Does anyone have the new White Stripes album? I really want it badly.
Then there's always the regular entries on the playlist: Strokes, Von Bondies, White Stripes, Green Day.
P.S. Check out Modena Vox for some really kick ass Strokes-esque rock. They're a local Columbus, Ohio area band. I hope they get a good record deal and bring their stuff to national reach.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
h2o
Banned
goes something like this:
"back then h0es didn't want me, now i'm hot h0es all on me"
it's like my personal anthem now
also good ones:
yin yang twins feat. mike jones - badd
slim thug feat. pharell - i ain't heard of that
TACH
Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
ObieJuan
Senior Don Juan
Three Days Grace - One X
Brand New just released "The Devil and God are Raging Inside Me" so I'll probably be listening to it real soon as well...Hurt is an incredible album- anyone into metallica, tool, or NiN should defintely give it a shot