"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Latest songs you like
- Thread starter Sometimes
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]
Don Juan
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paris avenue ft robin one - i want u
filur - i want u
danzel - pump it up
infernal - paris to berlin
tiesto - adagio for strings
uniting nations - out of touch
springbreak - shutup (cascada remix)
cant think of anymore house/dance
rap/rnb/hiphop
r.kelly - kickin it with your girlfriend
r.kelly - girls go crazy
hawk ft lil jon, scott storch - hoes aint ****
ying yang twins - put that thang down
112 - let this go
50 cent - just a lil bit
50 cent - outta control
the game ft 50 cent - this is how we do
dmx - give em what they want
eminem - mockingbird
cant be bothered typing ne more
DogFashionDisco
Senior Don Juan
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Speed of Sound - Coldplay
All The Small Things - Blink 182
Holiday - Green Day
Sugar We're Goin' Down - Fall Out Boy
Somewhere Only We Know - Keane
ShizamDaMan
Master Don Juan
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Does anyone have the new White Stripes album? I really want it badly.
Then there's always the regular entries on the playlist: Strokes, Von Bondies, White Stripes, Green Day.
P.S. Check out Modena Vox for some really kick ass Strokes-esque rock. They're a local Columbus, Ohio area band. I hope they get a good record deal and bring their stuff to national reach.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
h2o
Banned
goes something like this:
"back then h0es didn't want me, now i'm hot h0es all on me"
it's like my personal anthem now
also good ones:
yin yang twins feat. mike jones - badd
slim thug feat. pharell - i ain't heard of that
TACH
Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
ObieJuan
Senior Don Juan
Three Days Grace - One X
Brand New just released "The Devil and God are Raging Inside Me" so I'll probably be listening to it real soon as well...Hurt is an incredible album- anyone into metallica, tool, or NiN should defintely give it a shot