"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Latest songs you like
- Thread starter Sometimes
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 18, 2005
- Messages
- 93
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 38
paris avenue ft robin one - i want u
filur - i want u
danzel - pump it up
infernal - paris to berlin
tiesto - adagio for strings
uniting nations - out of touch
springbreak - shutup (cascada remix)
cant think of anymore house/dance
rap/rnb/hiphop
r.kelly - kickin it with your girlfriend
r.kelly - girls go crazy
hawk ft lil jon, scott storch - hoes aint ****
ying yang twins - put that thang down
112 - let this go
50 cent - just a lil bit
50 cent - outta control
the game ft 50 cent - this is how we do
dmx - give em what they want
eminem - mockingbird
cant be bothered typing ne more
DogFashionDisco
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 23, 2005
- Messages
- 296
- Reaction score
- 0
Speed of Sound - Coldplay
All The Small Things - Blink 182
Holiday - Green Day
Sugar We're Goin' Down - Fall Out Boy
Somewhere Only We Know - Keane
ShizamDaMan
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 26, 2003
- Messages
- 1,113
- Reaction score
- 3
Does anyone have the new White Stripes album? I really want it badly.
Then there's always the regular entries on the playlist: Strokes, Von Bondies, White Stripes, Green Day.
P.S. Check out Modena Vox for some really kick ass Strokes-esque rock. They're a local Columbus, Ohio area band. I hope they get a good record deal and bring their stuff to national reach.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
h2o
Banned
goes something like this:
"back then h0es didn't want me, now i'm hot h0es all on me"
it's like my personal anthem now
also good ones:
yin yang twins feat. mike jones - badd
slim thug feat. pharell - i ain't heard of that
TACH
Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
ObieJuan
Senior Don Juan
Three Days Grace - One X
Brand New just released "The Devil and God are Raging Inside Me" so I'll probably be listening to it real soon as well...Hurt is an incredible album- anyone into metallica, tool, or NiN should defintely give it a shot