"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So, I'm seeing this one girl. She is always texting me, and when I don't respond, it drives her wild. Today I didn't text her all until late in the day. Last night we were supposed to get together, but I blew it off and acted like I didn't even know we had plans. The more I do this stuff, the more she wants me. This is not the type of girl that will chase a guy, but she's chasing me.

So, she sends an email telling me that the suspense was killing her and was wondering why I haven't contacted her. Finally, around 4:30 I texted her and told her I was out and about and my phone was on the desk. I told her I was getting sweaty with the task I had to do today. She replied, "Ew, gross". I told it was sexy. She said that it would be sexy if I were in the bathroom or something. I asked if it would be sexy if I was in the bathroom sweating because I was having a hard time pushing out a turd. She relied, "That is DISGUSTING". I replied, "Ok, well that's not sexy then".

I haven't heard from her since, but it's damn funny.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She'll contact me again. She wants me enough to put up with the guy part of me.
 
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I posted a guy taking a dump on her myspace page. lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm going out with another chick tonight. She's taking me to a Cowboy Mouth concert. College atmosphere. I'm going to feel old, but at least she's paying. She even suggested staying in a hotel. Hmmm...

I'm not too concerned if the other chick is upset or disgusted. She'll get over it.
 
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