Dayum itz jee
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And when they ask How old i am... i dont know what to say... and i dont know wanna tell them the truth.. anyone wanna give me an idea of what to say when they ask?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lately i been hitting on chicks older than me...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Im no don juan (no matter what it says under my username) but I got a suggestion
how about you tell them *get ready*
the truth
The fact that you dont wanna tell them your real age means you are insecure about being younger. If its a big deal to you the chicks will see that, if its no prob then for the most part it will be no prob to the chick. Now certain chicks have preferences like not dating a younger guy. If you run into one of them and they shut you down just because of your age and not your look and personality, you dont need to be with them in the first place.
how about you tell them *get ready*
the truth
The fact that you dont wanna tell them your real age means you are insecure about being younger. If its a big deal to you the chicks will see that, if its no prob then for the most part it will be no prob to the chick. Now certain chicks have preferences like not dating a younger guy. If you run into one of them and they shut you down just because of your age and not your look and personality, you dont need to be with them in the first place.
Just tell them your age who the hell cares.
For instance, I'm 22, I'll be 23 in September.
Girl: How old are you?
Me: I'm 23, how old are... *pause*, oh wait that's a question you don't ask a girl.
Girl: *Laughs*
Converstaion continues.
For instance, I'm 22, I'll be 23 in September.
Girl: How old are you?
Me: I'm 23, how old are... *pause*, oh wait that's a question you don't ask a girl.
Girl: *Laughs*
Converstaion continues.
Floridaboy23
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I always find that if you say something that is unique in response to the question....something that makes your age seem less important and THEN admit your age, things tend to go much more smoothly. If you carry yourself like you're older and more mature yet still have the "young hung stud" attitude and are fun/flirty and know you qualify, older women are receptive. However, you have to carry yourself in a way that older women respond to and modify the approach slightly compared to how you would approach a younger woman with less experience. For some reason, I seem to be able to have some success with older women and very little success if any with girls my age or younger than me.
donArjun
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I am in somewhat of the same situation you are, how old are you btw ?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kings_royalty
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This screams out insecurity, weakness, fear, etc. Girls can smell this a mile away bro, get it together. Tell her the truth, what are you trying to hide from?Dayum itz jee said:
Uncomfortable with your age? Guide to SPing.asdfghjkl said:
Some *****es would really not talk to you because of your age. Jump that stupid filter she has, and that's it. Allthough, if you don't pass her other filters, by being attractive, nothing happens.