Dayum itz jee
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And when they ask How old i am... i dont know what to say... and i dont know wanna tell them the truth.. anyone wanna give me an idea of what to say when they ask?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Lately i been hitting on chicks older than me...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Im no don juan (no matter what it says under my username) but I got a suggestion
how about you tell them *get ready*
the truth
The fact that you dont wanna tell them your real age means you are insecure about being younger. If its a big deal to you the chicks will see that, if its no prob then for the most part it will be no prob to the chick. Now certain chicks have preferences like not dating a younger guy. If you run into one of them and they shut you down just because of your age and not your look and personality, you dont need to be with them in the first place.
how about you tell them *get ready*
the truth
The fact that you dont wanna tell them your real age means you are insecure about being younger. If its a big deal to you the chicks will see that, if its no prob then for the most part it will be no prob to the chick. Now certain chicks have preferences like not dating a younger guy. If you run into one of them and they shut you down just because of your age and not your look and personality, you dont need to be with them in the first place.
Just tell them your age who the hell cares.
For instance, I'm 22, I'll be 23 in September.
Girl: How old are you?
Me: I'm 23, how old are... *pause*, oh wait that's a question you don't ask a girl.
Girl: *Laughs*
Converstaion continues.
For instance, I'm 22, I'll be 23 in September.
Girl: How old are you?
Me: I'm 23, how old are... *pause*, oh wait that's a question you don't ask a girl.
Girl: *Laughs*
Converstaion continues.
Floridaboy23
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I always find that if you say something that is unique in response to the question....something that makes your age seem less important and THEN admit your age, things tend to go much more smoothly. If you carry yourself like you're older and more mature yet still have the "young hung stud" attitude and are fun/flirty and know you qualify, older women are receptive. However, you have to carry yourself in a way that older women respond to and modify the approach slightly compared to how you would approach a younger woman with less experience. For some reason, I seem to be able to have some success with older women and very little success if any with girls my age or younger than me.
donArjun
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I am in somewhat of the same situation you are, how old are you btw ?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Kings_royalty
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This screams out insecurity, weakness, fear, etc. Girls can smell this a mile away bro, get it together. Tell her the truth, what are you trying to hide from?Dayum itz jee said:
Uncomfortable with your age? Guide to SPing.asdfghjkl said:
Some *****es would really not talk to you because of your age. Jump that stupid filter she has, and that's it. Allthough, if you don't pass her other filters, by being attractive, nothing happens.