Dayum itz jee
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And when they ask How old i am... i dont know what to say... and i dont know wanna tell them the truth.. anyone wanna give me an idea of what to say when they ask?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Lately i been hitting on chicks older than me...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
qweretyuiopas
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Im no don juan (no matter what it says under my username) but I got a suggestion
how about you tell them *get ready*
the truth
The fact that you dont wanna tell them your real age means you are insecure about being younger. If its a big deal to you the chicks will see that, if its no prob then for the most part it will be no prob to the chick. Now certain chicks have preferences like not dating a younger guy. If you run into one of them and they shut you down just because of your age and not your look and personality, you dont need to be with them in the first place.
how about you tell them *get ready*
the truth
The fact that you dont wanna tell them your real age means you are insecure about being younger. If its a big deal to you the chicks will see that, if its no prob then for the most part it will be no prob to the chick. Now certain chicks have preferences like not dating a younger guy. If you run into one of them and they shut you down just because of your age and not your look and personality, you dont need to be with them in the first place.
Just tell them your age who the hell cares.
For instance, I'm 22, I'll be 23 in September.
Girl: How old are you?
Me: I'm 23, how old are... *pause*, oh wait that's a question you don't ask a girl.
Girl: *Laughs*
Converstaion continues.
For instance, I'm 22, I'll be 23 in September.
Girl: How old are you?
Me: I'm 23, how old are... *pause*, oh wait that's a question you don't ask a girl.
Girl: *Laughs*
Converstaion continues.
Floridaboy23
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I always find that if you say something that is unique in response to the question....something that makes your age seem less important and THEN admit your age, things tend to go much more smoothly. If you carry yourself like you're older and more mature yet still have the "young hung stud" attitude and are fun/flirty and know you qualify, older women are receptive. However, you have to carry yourself in a way that older women respond to and modify the approach slightly compared to how you would approach a younger woman with less experience. For some reason, I seem to be able to have some success with older women and very little success if any with girls my age or younger than me.
donArjun
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I am in somewhat of the same situation you are, how old are you btw ?
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kings_royalty
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This screams out insecurity, weakness, fear, etc. Girls can smell this a mile away bro, get it together. Tell her the truth, what are you trying to hide from?Dayum itz jee said:
Uncomfortable with your age? Guide to SPing.asdfghjkl said:
Some *****es would really not talk to you because of your age. Jump that stupid filter she has, and that's it. Allthough, if you don't pass her other filters, by being attractive, nothing happens.