Dayum itz jee
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And when they ask How old i am... i dont know what to say... and i dont know wanna tell them the truth.. anyone wanna give me an idea of what to say when they ask?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lately i been hitting on chicks older than me...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
qweretyuiopas
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Im no don juan (no matter what it says under my username) but I got a suggestion
how about you tell them *get ready*
the truth
The fact that you dont wanna tell them your real age means you are insecure about being younger. If its a big deal to you the chicks will see that, if its no prob then for the most part it will be no prob to the chick. Now certain chicks have preferences like not dating a younger guy. If you run into one of them and they shut you down just because of your age and not your look and personality, you dont need to be with them in the first place.
how about you tell them *get ready*
the truth
The fact that you dont wanna tell them your real age means you are insecure about being younger. If its a big deal to you the chicks will see that, if its no prob then for the most part it will be no prob to the chick. Now certain chicks have preferences like not dating a younger guy. If you run into one of them and they shut you down just because of your age and not your look and personality, you dont need to be with them in the first place.
Just tell them your age who the hell cares.
For instance, I'm 22, I'll be 23 in September.
Girl: How old are you?
Me: I'm 23, how old are... *pause*, oh wait that's a question you don't ask a girl.
Girl: *Laughs*
Converstaion continues.
For instance, I'm 22, I'll be 23 in September.
Girl: How old are you?
Me: I'm 23, how old are... *pause*, oh wait that's a question you don't ask a girl.
Girl: *Laughs*
Converstaion continues.
Floridaboy23
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I always find that if you say something that is unique in response to the question....something that makes your age seem less important and THEN admit your age, things tend to go much more smoothly. If you carry yourself like you're older and more mature yet still have the "young hung stud" attitude and are fun/flirty and know you qualify, older women are receptive. However, you have to carry yourself in a way that older women respond to and modify the approach slightly compared to how you would approach a younger woman with less experience. For some reason, I seem to be able to have some success with older women and very little success if any with girls my age or younger than me.
donArjun
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I am in somewhat of the same situation you are, how old are you btw ?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Kings_royalty
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This screams out insecurity, weakness, fear, etc. Girls can smell this a mile away bro, get it together. Tell her the truth, what are you trying to hide from?Dayum itz jee said:
Uncomfortable with your age? Guide to SPing.asdfghjkl said:
Some *****es would really not talk to you because of your age. Jump that stupid filter she has, and that's it. Allthough, if you don't pass her other filters, by being attractive, nothing happens.