"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am currently in a country where the only option to meet women is if you want to marry them. Everything beside that is pretty much unlikely.
Most dudes here get married pretty early with 24 or something. I as handsome half foreigner who will be 30 this year have def. spoted some super hot women here.
They are most likely virgins, know how to cook and are good with kids. So it has crossed my mind to actively look for women here. But the idea of getting married and having kids now is not so appealing to me. On the other hand in Europe were I live women are very - let's say - sexually generous, and most are no gf/wife material.

So I slowly begin to think to pick a girl from here is not a bad option at all! What you guys think ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah I’m down with that. What country are you talking about...? Lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am invited to a wedding this weekend. With a lot of wiskey and ouzo + a ton of young women looking for a husband lol
 
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LaughyDuck said:
I am currently in a country where the only option to meet women is if you want to marry them. Everything beside that is pretty much unlikely.
Most dudes here get married pretty early with 24 or something. I as handsome half foreigner who will be 30 this year have def. spoted some super hot women here.
They are most likely virgins, know how to cook and are good with kids. So it has crossed my mind to actively look for women here. But the idea of getting married and having kids now is not so appealing to me. On the other hand in Europe were I live women are very - let's say - sexually generous, and most are no gf/wife material.

So I slowly begin to think to pick a girl from here is not a bad option at all! What you guys think ?
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mrgoodstuff said:
At least you'll get a wife trained to be loyal from birth. She will learn to lease her man.
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True it's not like there are no divorces here, but people here are taking marriage more serious then in europe And many women here are fine with being the wife who is at home and looks after the kids, cooks for her husband after work etc. Honstely I slowly begin to think i would be dumb not to choose a women from here as the women I met in europe are very oppurtunistic
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LaughyDuck said:
True it's not like there are no divorces here, but people here are taking marriage more serious then in europe And many women here are fine with being the wife who is at home and looks after the kids, cooks for her husband after work etc. Honstely I slowly begin to think i would be dumb not to choose a women from here as the women I met in europe are very oppurtunistic
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So a wife from there is a firm foundation to build with. A European or American wife will many times monkey wrench you and provide distraction.
 
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Go ahead, totally agree with you as I lived there for over 20 years and then North America for the past 9.
 
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