"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am currently in a country where the only option to meet women is if you want to marry them. Everything beside that is pretty much unlikely.
Most dudes here get married pretty early with 24 or something. I as handsome half foreigner who will be 30 this year have def. spoted some super hot women here.
They are most likely virgins, know how to cook and are good with kids. So it has crossed my mind to actively look for women here. But the idea of getting married and having kids now is not so appealing to me. On the other hand in Europe were I live women are very - let's say - sexually generous, and most are no gf/wife material.

So I slowly begin to think to pick a girl from here is not a bad option at all! What you guys think ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah I’m down with that. What country are you talking about...? Lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am invited to a wedding this weekend. With a lot of wiskey and ouzo + a ton of young women looking for a husband lol
 
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LaughyDuck said:
I am currently in a country where the only option to meet women is if you want to marry them. Everything beside that is pretty much unlikely.
Most dudes here get married pretty early with 24 or something. I as handsome half foreigner who will be 30 this year have def. spoted some super hot women here.
They are most likely virgins, know how to cook and are good with kids. So it has crossed my mind to actively look for women here. But the idea of getting married and having kids now is not so appealing to me. On the other hand in Europe were I live women are very - let's say - sexually generous, and most are no gf/wife material.

So I slowly begin to think to pick a girl from here is not a bad option at all! What you guys think ?
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mrgoodstuff said:
At least you'll get a wife trained to be loyal from birth. She will learn to lease her man.
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True it's not like there are no divorces here, but people here are taking marriage more serious then in europe And many women here are fine with being the wife who is at home and looks after the kids, cooks for her husband after work etc. Honstely I slowly begin to think i would be dumb not to choose a women from here as the women I met in europe are very oppurtunistic
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LaughyDuck said:
True it's not like there are no divorces here, but people here are taking marriage more serious then in europe And many women here are fine with being the wife who is at home and looks after the kids, cooks for her husband after work etc. Honstely I slowly begin to think i would be dumb not to choose a women from here as the women I met in europe are very oppurtunistic
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So a wife from there is a firm foundation to build with. A European or American wife will many times monkey wrench you and provide distraction.
 
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Go ahead, totally agree with you as I lived there for over 20 years and then North America for the past 9.
 
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