"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am currently in a country where the only option to meet women is if you want to marry them. Everything beside that is pretty much unlikely.
Most dudes here get married pretty early with 24 or something. I as handsome half foreigner who will be 30 this year have def. spoted some super hot women here.
They are most likely virgins, know how to cook and are good with kids. So it has crossed my mind to actively look for women here. But the idea of getting married and having kids now is not so appealing to me. On the other hand in Europe were I live women are very - let's say - sexually generous, and most are no gf/wife material.

So I slowly begin to think to pick a girl from here is not a bad option at all! What you guys think ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah I’m down with that. What country are you talking about...? Lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am invited to a wedding this weekend. With a lot of wiskey and ouzo + a ton of young women looking for a husband lol
 
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LaughyDuck said:
I am currently in a country where the only option to meet women is if you want to marry them. Everything beside that is pretty much unlikely.
Most dudes here get married pretty early with 24 or something. I as handsome half foreigner who will be 30 this year have def. spoted some super hot women here.
They are most likely virgins, know how to cook and are good with kids. So it has crossed my mind to actively look for women here. But the idea of getting married and having kids now is not so appealing to me. On the other hand in Europe were I live women are very - let's say - sexually generous, and most are no gf/wife material.

So I slowly begin to think to pick a girl from here is not a bad option at all! What you guys think ?
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mrgoodstuff said:
At least you'll get a wife trained to be loyal from birth. She will learn to lease her man.
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True it's not like there are no divorces here, but people here are taking marriage more serious then in europe And many women here are fine with being the wife who is at home and looks after the kids, cooks for her husband after work etc. Honstely I slowly begin to think i would be dumb not to choose a women from here as the women I met in europe are very oppurtunistic
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LaughyDuck said:
True it's not like there are no divorces here, but people here are taking marriage more serious then in europe And many women here are fine with being the wife who is at home and looks after the kids, cooks for her husband after work etc. Honstely I slowly begin to think i would be dumb not to choose a women from here as the women I met in europe are very oppurtunistic
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So a wife from there is a firm foundation to build with. A European or American wife will many times monkey wrench you and provide distraction.
 
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Go ahead, totally agree with you as I lived there for over 20 years and then North America for the past 9.
 
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