"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Last nights christmas event at work

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Yesterday, we had a Christmas event at work, the director speeches, everyone got their present. There was a choir singing songs, booze and an informal after party at a local pub which some colleagues and I attended. At the formal party I was a bit shocked with the number of women pressing their breaths in my back, it happened like 12 times. Usually this doesn't happen alot. Now, I understand when girls don't like you they remove themselves form your presence. Were those IOI's? Yes I'm an idot when it comes to this stuff.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes, touching is very important when it comes to women. Women will allow physical contact from men they are attracted to and will also initiate physical contact with men they are attracted to. You should have taken a few shots, you probably could have gotten a blow job out of it.
 
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If it was a very crowded event that’s nothing to get excited about, people bump into each other a lot in that environment.
If not overly crowded, that’s very close body contact and worth pitching an opener or two…
 
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