"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Last nights christmas event at work

Poonstra

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Yesterday, we had a Christmas event at work, the director speeches, everyone got their present. There was a choir singing songs, booze and an informal after party at a local pub which some colleagues and I attended. At the formal party I was a bit shocked with the number of women pressing their breaths in my back, it happened like 12 times. Usually this doesn't happen alot. Now, I understand when girls don't like you they remove themselves form your presence. Were those IOI's? Yes I'm an idot when it comes to this stuff.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thinker

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Yes, touching is very important when it comes to women. Women will allow physical contact from men they are attracted to and will also initiate physical contact with men they are attracted to. You should have taken a few shots, you probably could have gotten a blow job out of it.
 

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If it was a very crowded event that’s nothing to get excited about, people bump into each other a lot in that environment.
If not overly crowded, that’s very close body contact and worth pitching an opener or two…
 
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