"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Last nights christmas event at work

Poonstra

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Yesterday, we had a Christmas event at work, the director speeches, everyone got their present. There was a choir singing songs, booze and an informal after party at a local pub which some colleagues and I attended. At the formal party I was a bit shocked with the number of women pressing their breaths in my back, it happened like 12 times. Usually this doesn't happen alot. Now, I understand when girls don't like you they remove themselves form your presence. Were those IOI's? Yes I'm an idot when it comes to this stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes, touching is very important when it comes to women. Women will allow physical contact from men they are attracted to and will also initiate physical contact with men they are attracted to. You should have taken a few shots, you probably could have gotten a blow job out of it.
 
Billtx49

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If it was a very crowded event that’s nothing to get excited about, people bump into each other a lot in that environment.
If not overly crowded, that’s very close body contact and worth pitching an opener or two…
 
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